Ways to Save Your Relationship from the Influence of Ego – Ego VS Relationship (Part-2)

Ego nowadays is one of the major factors for the problems arising in the relationship. People are losing the love and bonding with their partner day by day. They want to make things better but they just don’t know how to do it. If you are also in a relationship and want to make the situations better just stick with the article and we will discuss how we could do it.

Before digging into the solutions it is very important to first understand the influence of ego in you or your partner which is spoiling your relationship. It’s really important as if you could not find out the problem, you would not be able to resolve it. To know how to identify the influence of ego, just read my previous article on “How Ego Destroys the Relationships.”

Now, as you know how to identify the influence of ego, we can talk about the solutions. There are few steps which we can follow to resolve the issues of relationship easily arising due to the influence of ego.

1. Understanding and Accepting Your Own Mistakes: As we all know, “humans are made to make mistakes.” There is none who never made a mistake in his/her life. If you also believe in it, there is a simple logic associated with it which you also have to believe on. It could not always be your partner’s mistake behind every disputation. There must your own mistakes as well. It may be less or more but it must be there. If you think that you never made a mistake in your relationship, you are just not in a maturity level to understand it and it is your ego which is not letting you understand your own mistakes.

 So be mature, do unbiased thinking without letting your ego to affect you, understand your own mistakes when it is there and accept it.

2. Don’t Hesitate to Use the Magical Word “Sorry”: Most of the people find it very difficult to say sorry to his/her partner. A large number of these kinds of people think that it will spoil their image in front of his/her partner. Believe me, it doesn’t work like this. Most of your problem’s solution you would find just across this magical word. It will never spoil your image if it is your fault rather it will increase the love and affection in the heart of your partner for you.

3. Give Time to Your Partner If It is Not Your Fault: If you do realize that it is not your mistake, don’t expect any immediate realization of mistake from your partner’s end. After an argument, people usually be angry and lost the capacity to think rationally. Wait for the situations to calm down. Once you will not react immediately during an argument and will give time to your partner, he/she will definitely understand his/her mistake.

If your partner could not understand his/her mistake after the passage of time as well, just go to him/her leaving your ego aside and explain your point of view. He/she will definitely understand his/her mistake.

These were few tips on “how to overcome your ego” and make your relationship a stronger and better one. If you do like this article leave a comment below. If you have any advice, share it with us, we would be glad to have your opinion. Thank you!!