How Ego Destroys the Relationships – Ego VS Relationship (Part -1)

Ego is a very small word, made up with only 3 letters but it has the power to destroy the whole relationship containing 12 letters in it. A heart with ego can’t contain love in it. Where there is ego there is no place for love.

People in love relationships take lots of decisions being influenced by their ego but the problem lies in the fact that they generally don’t understand it and over a period of time they start disconnecting with their better half and finally their relationships come to an end. People find leaving their love once quite easier than to leave their ego and finally they have only the loneliness and bad memories to deal with.

There is no hard and fast rule to understand the ego and the decisions taken based on it but let us try to understand it with a simple but effective example. Suppose there is some disputation among you and your partner and you both are angry on each-other. Now, generally, two totally adverse opinions of two people on the same matter may not correct. Any of them may have an incorrect opinion. The only thing required here to settle all this mess is to understand the mistake and to say a small word “sorry” and everything would become normal. The very moment you or your partner will say sorry, the love and affection would be dominant again on anger and the situation would be even better. But the story of the ego starts from here. The feeling controls your mind at this kind of scenario is your ego. It never lets you realize your own mistake. It only makes you realize that you are the only person who is correct here and the total fault is of the other person. The same feeling controls your partner as well. As a result, this dispute and anger among you keep alive and even increase over time. And a bunch of this kind of incidents causes you to lose your relationship.

Now, just ask one simple question to yourself, “Is it possible that you are not wrong even once in your whole life from when you are in a relationship?” If the answer is yes then you must be someone other than a human being because humans are made to make mistakes. One who has never made a mistake in his/her life, he/she must be God or something like that. And if you do agree that there must be your mistakes as well behind those arguments and quarrels you had with your partner, how many times you realized it and said sorry? I am sure that most of you did not ever realized your mistake and said sorry. Now, if you find yourself in a similar scenario, I am sorry to say but your relationship may be in trouble.

This is the only thing happening to most of the relationships nowadays and without realizing the impact of ego, people are losing the love bonding among themselves or even losing their relationships. If you are facing similar problems and want to know how to resolve the issues arising because of ego, click here.

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